Rules for Serving Food
1. Place and remove plates from the left of the person being served. Hold the
plate in your left hand. If you are carrying two plates, place on the table first
the one in your left hand, then transfer the other plate to your left hand, and
place it before the next person being served.
2. Place and remove beverages from the right, with your right hand. If you are
serving tea, coffee, cocoa, or any other hot beverage, take care that the cups
are not too full. Hot liquid that is spilled can easily cause a painful burn.
3. Refill glasses or cups from the right, leaving them in position on the table rather
than picking them up.
4. Carry plates in such a way that you do not touch the surface from which food
is eaten. Avoid touching the rims of glasses. When placing silverware, touch
only the handles.
5. Offer food to the guest from the left, holding it low enough so that he can easily
serve himself with his right hand.
6. Never reach across in front of a guest when serving food or removing dishes.
7. When a course is finished, remove all dishes used in that course. Remove
serving dishes and silver first, then remove the dishes from each person's cover,
usually beginning with the hostess or guest of honor.
8. Avoid stacking dishes on the table in front of the guest in clearing the table.
Use your left hand to remove the plate, transfer it to your right hand for the salad
plate or other dish.
Serving and Removing Food
When you are serving plates of food, carry one in each hand. Standing at the
left of the person you are serving, place in front of her the plate you are holding
in your left hand. Then transfer to your left hand the plate you were holding in
your right hand, move to the next person, and serve her in the same manner.
When you pass food to a person at the table, offer it at her left, low enough so
she can reach it conveniently with her right hand. Then move to the next person
at the first parson's right.
When you remove soiled dishes, stand at the left of the person and take the
plate in your left hand. Transfer the plate to your right hand, leaving your left
hand free to remove the next plate.
If a guest requests more water, fill her glass or goblet without removing it from
the table. Hold the pitcher of water in the right hand and a folded napkin in the
left hand to catch any water that drips as the glass is being refilled. As a
matter of routine, water glasses or goblets are refilled after the main course
plates are removed, and before dessert is served.
Another service that is often used when a quick, informal meal is planned for a
large crowd is called "buffet service." All the food is placed on platters or in
bowls on a table, together with silverware, plates and napkins.
Each person serves himself. It is important that the food be easy to serve as
well as eat. Each person then takes his food to the place where he will eat it.
The hostess may have set up card tables or small folding TV tables, or she may
have planned that her guests will use lap trays while eating the food.
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